Yes I agree with you too - don’t get me wrong, I haven’t written their
entire generations off

and I believe that the fault to a (small) degree is down to us as parents/grandparents, but by far I believe that social media; liberalism; celebrity (like that reality TV show bollox) and the media are to blame.
I‘ll bet for instance that the media didn’t bother to or ignored people in Scotland and the North East who are hacking the situation fine - because they have a real world view and prepped for it (Like Ystranc!

) But that isn’t sensational and nor does it allow the media to push a political agenda I.e. ‘The government aren’t doing anything/enough’.
I’ve periodically been involved in a conversation along the lines of - is my generation (so called baby boomers) more like my parents generation (post WW1 to end of WW2) or are we more like our offsprings generation (Gen X and The Millennials)?
My fatha was one of nine and brought up in the late ‘20s/‘30s in the back streets during the Depression (no, not the one you get when sowshal meedya is down

); meagre meals; worn out hand me downs; sometimes no shoes! no NHS etc.
In no way did I endure that degree of deprivation during my childhood but many things were common - no central heating; no double glazing; ice on the inside of yer winders; fires to make up in the morning, phone - at the end of the street (if you were lucky!) etc. To ‘enjoy’ anything there was a ‘pre payment’ to make - EFFORT.